The Ultimate Attraction Training
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We might reopen registration for Healthy Attraction in late 2026. If and when that happens, we’ll update this page with all the details. So, if you're interested, keep an eye out!
In the meantime, take a moment to explore everything this transformative program has to offer. Learn how it helps you break free from superficial dating tactics and truly transform your love life from the inside out. Dive into the details below and get ready for when doors open again!
Tired of endless swiping and awkward dates?
Welcome to David Tian's Healthy Attraction 6-Month Transformation, the last attraction training you'll ever need.
This is not for people who want tricks.
It’s not for people who want a partner to fix their loneliness.
It’s not for people who want to argue instead of change.
This is for people who already handle their professional responsibilities... and are ready to bring that same standard to their love life.
Some people arrive here because their confidence works in public, but collapses in dating and intimacy.
Others are tired of short bursts of success followed by anxiety, neediness, or self-sabotage.
Wherever you started, this is where the pattern ends.
Whether your goal is an active dating life, a committed partner, or marriage, Healthy Attraction helps you build the internal stability that makes all of this possible.
It’s the most complete program I’ve ever created for transforming love and connection from the inside out.
Why This Program Works:
- Inside-Out Approach: Most attraction advice fixes the externals or the behavior. Healthy Attraction, however, directly addresses the structure underneath the behavior. If you still feel inferior, anxious, or approval-seeking, no text message will save you. When your inner state stabilizes, though, your actions stop feeling forced or needy. This program works at that level.
- Efficient and Effective: With just 90 minutes a week of focused attention, your unconscious mind will continue working in the background, making this method not only powerful but also time-efficient. It's about working smarter, not harder.
- Results-Driven: This is not hype or a quick-fix. It’s steady structural change. People who do the work stop needing validation. That’s when attraction becomes natural.
- Exclusive Access: Maximum of 4 people. No hiding. No spectators. No anonymous lurking. You get direct access to me and true accountability.
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Can You Relate to Any of These?
Endless Swiping:
Let’s start with the obvious: the never-ending swipe. You spend hours swiping left and right, hoping for a match that could turn into something meaningful. But what do you get? A few awkward conversations that fizzle out quickly, leaving you more frustrated than before. The constant rejection and superficial connections drain your energy and optimism. It feels like a full-time job with no payoff.
Awkward Dates:
When you do get a match, the stress doesn’t end. You go on dates that feel more like interviews, filled with awkward silences and forced small talk. You overthink every move, wondering if you’re saying the right things or making the right impression. By the end of the night, you’re exhausted and disappointed, wondering why it’s so hard to find someone you genuinely connect with.
Not Knowing How to Take the Relationship to the Next Level:
Even if you do find someone you like, taking the relationship to the next level feels like navigating a minefield. You’re not sure how to move beyond casual conversations to deeper, meaningful interactions. Every step feels uncertain. You worry about saying the wrong thing or coming on too strong. This hesitation keeps the relationship from progressing, leaving you stuck in the friend zone or in an endless loop of casual flings.
Anxiety and Neediness:
The underlying anxiety and neediness can be overwhelming. You constantly check your phone, over-analyzing every text and interaction. You worry about when they’ll call or text back, and why they haven’t yet. This anxiety often pushes people away, even if you’re not aware of it. It’s a vicious cycle: the more you worry, the more needy you seem, and the less likely the relationship is to flourish.
Superficial Advice Overload:
The internet is full of dating advice that focuses on surface-level tactics: what to text, what to wear, how to act. But these tips are often band-aid solutions that don’t address the real issues.
You might get a date or two out of them, but they rarely lead to lasting, meaningful connections. You’re left feeling like you’re just going through the motions, without any real progress.
Emotional Exhaustion:
All these failed attempts and superficial tactics take a toll on your emotional well-being. Each setback chips away at your self-esteem, making you feel more anxious and insecure. You start to doubt yourself, thinking there’s something fundamentally wrong with you. The pressure to succeed in your love life becomes overwhelming, leading to a cycle of stress and disappointment.
Feeling Stuck:
The worst part? You feel stuck. You keep trying different approaches, but nothing seems to work. The cycle of swiping, awkward dates, and uncertainty feels never-ending.
You begin to wonder if you’ll ever find someone who truly gets you and wants to build a life with you.
The Real Issue:
Here’s the harsh truth: the problem isn’t just your dating tactics. It’s deeper than that. Most people who struggle with dating don’t have a dating problem; they have a therapeutic problem that’s manifesting in their dating life.
Issues like anxiety, neediness, and low self-worth are the real barriers. Addressing these core insecurities is the key to transforming your love life.
What if I told you there’s a different way?
A method that doesn’t rely on superficial tactics,
but instead addresses the core issues holding you back...
Who Am I, Anyway?
Hey there, I’m David Tian, Ph.D. For nearly 20 years, I’ve helped people around the world improve their attraction, leadership, and psychological strength.
I’ve coached in nightclubs, boardrooms, and private sessions. I’ve trained in multiple psychotherapy modalities and published academic research on dating skills.
I understand tactics.
I also understand their limits.
Well over a decade ago, I was living what many guys would call the dream. I thought I had it all: the first-class playboy lifestyle, the fitness goals, the money, and having had a string of beautiful women that my geeky teenage self could never have imagined.
But then, my girlfriend of many years cheated on me, and all that success felt meaningless. It was a crushing blow. I hit rock bottom, with a good friend staying with me on “suicide watch” after I tried to jump from a 57th-floor rooftop.
Desperate for a change, I joined some buddies on a motorcycle trip through northern Vietnam up to the border of China. I had never ridden a motorcycle before, and it didn’t take long for things to go wrong. I was knocked unconscious in a head-on collision on a mountain road. After that, each corner I turned felt like it could be my last, and I thought about ending it all right there, riding off the edge of the mountains we were passing into the beautiful sunset.
But this one thought arose and kept me grounded: I wanted to see my 3-year-old goddaughter grow up. Despite being a hardcore party guy, the love discovered I felt for her was the most powerful force I’d ever experienced. This little girl, whom I had helped raise, showed me the true meaning of unconditional love. During my darkest times, she had become my light.
Fast forward to the present, and I'm formally trained in several psychotherapy modalities and am a Brown University Certified Leadership & Performance Coach, a Certified IFS Therapy Practitioner (Internal Family Systems Therapy), and an ICF Certified Coach. In my coaching practice, I bring all these experiences and skills together to help you not just date better, but transform your entire approach to attraction and connection.
Today, I’m happily married, a proud parent, and focused on helping people build internal stability strong enough that attraction becomes natural instead of forced.
Healthy Attraction reflects that evolution.
-Stan K., Entrepreneur - USA
“I have to say, David Tian has changed my life an insane amount for the better. When I first started listening to his podcasts, I was skeptical. I was skeptical because it was turning my entire belief structure on its head. Little did I know that, at the time, many parts of me were dying to have my belief structure uprooted. It was causing me anxiety, frustration, anger, and most of all—shame. I was unaware of my insecurities and I was insecure of my insecurities… This was sabotaging many parts of my life and giving me needless negative emotions. I could write a book with the amount of distress I was causing myself.
“David’s coaching has helped me immensely. In a life fulfillment perspective, I’m calmer and far less anxious in my work setting and my social group setting. Additionally, I’m more confident and, frankly, I give a lot less of a shit of what other people think of me, which is key to living YOUR fulfilled life.
“And from the perspective of women, I’ve literally had beautiful women tell me that my ‘emotional intelligence’ is grounding (thanks for the intelligence in that domain, David) and they love to be around me!”
Why Most Attraction Advice Is Wrong
Most advice treats symptoms.
Better photos may increase matches and sharper lines may increase replies.
But if insecurity remains, the old patterns creep back in and .
People assume they need more tactics.
So they stack strategy on top of instability.
That cycle can run for years.
Healthy Attraction interrupts it at the root.
A Different Approach: The Therapeutic Advantage
Here’s the truth: most attraction issues are actually unconscious emotional issues manifesting as romantic and social struggles. With nearly two decades of experience in both real-world attraction coaching and psychotherapy-level training, I can work on both layers.
Sometimes you need behavioral correction. Sometimes you need to stabilize the emotional system underneath.
Most programs can’t distinguish the difference.
This one can.
Inside-Out Transformation
When you work from the inside out, everything changes naturally. As you make progress internally, the outer changes happen automatically. When you work on the mind, it reflects in your actions, decisions, and interactions. When you upgrade your internal structure, outer changes follow naturally.
Your voice relaxes. Your presence shifts. Your reactions stabilize.
If you only adjust behavior, the change doesn’t stick.
Structural work lasts.
Efficiency and Ease
This therapeutic approach is much more efficient. Ninety percent of the work is done in the mind. It takes almost no time – just 90 minutes a week of conscious attention.
Clear assignments. Real integration.
No theatrics. No heroic metrics.
Just steady upgrades.
Now let’s address the real issues, and transform your love life from the inside out.
Introducing…
Welcome to the Healthy Attraction Transformation!
This live 6-month online coaching intensive helps you break the frustration cycle. Through evidence-based therapeutic methods and focused coaching, you’ll build emotional steadiness, secure attachment patterns, and natural confidence. Small cohort. Personalized attention. Direct feedback.
Whether your goal is a calendar full of dates, finding a committed partner, or creating a passionate marriage, the internal structure remains the same. That’s what we build.
What You Get With Healthy Attraction
Weekly Live Coaching:
Every week, join David Tian for a focused 90-minute live coaching session with no more than 3 other people. This isn’t some massive, impersonal webinar. It’s intimate, efficient, and tailored. In just 90 minutes a week over 20+ weeks, you’ll dive deep into the real issues holding you back and make tangible progress. You’ll get the personalized attention you need to tackle your unique challenges head-on and see rapid, meaningful results.
Personalized Roadmap:
With a personalized roadmap from Dr. Tian, you're not getting a one-size-fits-all plan. Whether your goal is to have a date every other day, find a committed relationship, or get married, Dr. Tian tailors the roadmap specifically for you. This means every step is designed to meet your unique needs and circumstances. No more generic advice. This is a clear, actionable path to achieving exactly what you want in your love life, backed by years of expertise.
Private Coaching in a Small Group:
Private coaching within a small group of four means you get the best of both worlds: personalized attention from David Tian and the support of a close-knit community. This intimate setting ensures your specific needs are addressed while benefiting from the shared experiences of others. It’s like having a personal coach and mastermind group rolled into one, driving your progress faster and more efficiently.
Power Hour Assignments:
In between the live meetings, you’ll have targeted assignments designed to reinforce what you’ve discovered in the coaching sessions. These tasks take no more than an hour to complete, making them highly time-efficient. They’re not just busywork; they’re strategically crafted to deepen your understanding and ensure you’re applying the insights in real-life scenarios. This way, you’ll see continuous progress without feeling overwhelmed. It’s all about maximizing impact with minimal time investment, keeping you on track and steadily moving towards your goals.
Proven Methods:
Leverage decades of expertise and countless success stories with Dr. Tian’s proven methods, which is the only dating skills system validated and proven in a Tier 1 academic journal publication by research teams from the University of Michigan, the University of Southern California, and three universities in Singapore (SMU, NTU, and Murdoch). This program blends deep psychological insights with practical strategies to transform your love life. You’ll learn everything from understanding your inner motivations to effective communication techniques.
These aren’t just theories; they’re tested and refined approaches that have helped thousands achieve their goals. By integrating both the mind and actionable steps, you’ll experience a holistic transformation that’s both profound and practical.
Supportive 24/7 Online Chat Community:
Healthy Attraction comes with an incredible 24/7 online chat community. Imagine having a network of like-minded individuals at your fingertips, ready to offer support, share experiences, and provide encouragement anytime you need it. This isn’t just a feature; it’s a lifeline. Whether you’re celebrating a win or facing a challenge, this community ensures you’re never alone on your journey. It’s like having a team of cheerleaders and coaches in your pocket, helping you stay motivated and on track to achieve your dating goals.
Our Unmatched Guarantee
I'm so confident in the Healthy Attraction Transformation that I'm offering the strongest service guarantee you’ll ever see: Achieve your stated love life goal by the end of the program, or I will continue working with you until you do — at no additional cost.
That guarantee is real. So are the conditions. You must attend the sessions. Complete the assignments. Implement the feedback. Apply what’s discussed between sessions. If you resist, disappear, argue instead of execute, or treat this like passive content consumption, this guarantee does not apply.
This is a performance-based commitment on both sides. If you are admitted and you follow the program fully, I stay committed until your desired outcome is reached. After completing the Healthy Attraction 6-month Transformation and executing the work properly, you'll have internal stability that holds under pressure. This is structural change that lasts.
Bonus:
Platinum Partnership All Access Pass
Get ready for a game-changing bonus: the Platinum Partnership All Access Pass. This exclusive offer grants you unlimited access to all 21+ of David Tian's world-class, scientifically-backed courses for a whole year. Covering everything from dating and relationships to masculinity, psychology, and lifestyle training, this pass includes over $53,750.00 worth of training and more than 500+ hours of video and audio material.
But it’s not just about the content. Joining the Platinum Partnership means becoming part of a bigger global community of like-minded individuals. This network of Platinum Partners offers support, insights, and accountability, enhancing your growth journey. Imagine having access to a treasure trove of knowledge and a community that pushes you to be your best.
This bonus transforms your Healthy Attraction experience into an all-encompassing journey of personal development. It’s an unparalleled opportunity to dive deep into every aspect of your growth, ensuring you not only achieve your love life goals but also thrive in all areas of your life. Don’t miss out on this chance to level up with the best resources at your fingertips. Learn more about this transformative bonus here
Early Enrollment Bonus!
Act fast and secure your spot in the first 3 days of the enrollment period to receive another fantastic bonus: a complimentary admission pass to the next 15-week therapeutic coaching group (a $3000 value!). This bonus can be used for any one therapeutic coaching group within the next 6 months.
Joining a therapeutic coaching group with David Tian complements the more individualized coaching in Healthy Attraction perfectly. In a larger group setting (maximum of 9 participants), you’ll experience the unique and powerful dynamics of group interactions, like the social microcosm effect. Take advantage of this unique opportunity to accelerate your growth.
Unparalleled Value for a Life-Changing Transformation
If that number creates panic, this likely isn’t the right season. This program is for people who invest in growth the way they invest in health and skill development. It is for those who expect the best and are ready to invest in the one area of life where fulfillment matters most.
Yet the full Healthy Attraction experience is 13,000 USD (with a payment plan available).
This 6-month live intensive delivers a level of coaching, attention, and structure that, if taken privately, would cost well over $60,000 for the coaching alone. In addition, enrollment includes the Platinum Partnership—over $53,000 worth of curated programs, training, and advanced content available at your fingertips.
For many people, love and intimacy remain the last parts of life where true mastery feels out of reach. That’s a major reason Healthy Attraction exists—to bring the same level of excellence and transformation usually reserved for leadership coaching into the most personal area of all.
Healthy Attraction
6-Month Live Online Small-Group Coaching Intensive
- 6 Months of Live Coaching with David Tian: Get direct, personalized guidance in an intimate group format.
- Personalized Roadmap: Tailored plans to achieve your specific dating goals, whether it’s frequent dates or finding a long-term partner.
- Private Coaching in the Small Group: Benefit from individual attention within a supportive small group setting, capped at 4 members.
- Power Hour Assignments: Efficient, impactful weekly tasks designed to reinforce your learning and progress.
- 24/7 Online Chat Community: Constant support from David Tian and your cohort of like-minded individuals.
- Unparalleled Guarantee: Achieve your goals or continue receiving coaching from Dr. Tian at no extra cost until you do.
- Bonus: Platinum Partnership All Access Pass -- One year of unlimited access to all 21+ of David Tian’s world-class courses and a global community, valued at over $53,750.
Tuition: 4 payments of 3750 USD, or save $1,500 by settling upfront
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Rick, executive, USA
“When I first signed up for Dr. Tian’s coaching course, I wanted to change things in my dating life and overall. Not only did it change my dating life, it changed how I perceived myself and those around me. I was with ok with women but now I am even better. I have lost a huge amount of neediness and fear about women. I used to be afraid to even talk to some women but that has changed and it changed due to David’s coaching program, which is way more than just about women.
I’m now in a relationship that is secure but also passionate and fun. And it’s thanks to my experience in this program. David is the real deal and I should know. I have tried many, many different programs, so I do have something to compare it to as well. He will call you on your BS and bring out that deep inner part of you that is the real you.”
Thomas, engineer, Australia
“Hey David, I know that you must consistently hear this over and over in response to your programs but I still do want to share my success with you. The reality is that your coaching was the missing link in my search for self improvement. I gave you all of my trust in investing what is to me, a significant amount of money into your program… and what I have to say is that…
YOUR PROGRAM WAS THE BEST RISK I HAVE EVER TAKEN IN MY ENTIRE LIFE!
Quite frankly it has changed my life. My posture, my neediness, my ability to socialise, to talk to women, to get intimate with women. All of these things have drastically changed!
In the weeks since i have begun the program, i have gone from talking to a few women ive matched on tinder, to talking to a never ending tide of women coming into my life. SO MUCH SO, THAT I DONT HAVE THE TIME TO MEET THEM ALL. It’s literally made the abundance mindset a legitimate reality for me. I’ve been on dates with multiple women and even approached the most intimidatingly beautiful woman I’ve ever seen in person and got her contact details.
Thanks so much for everything you do! What you have done for me and my life is priceless and you have my utmost loyalty going into the future.”
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