Small-Group Coaching Program

Create Connection, Find Love, Keep it Real

Create Connection,
Find Love,
Keep it Real

Welcome to the Healthy Dating & Relationships Small-Group Coaching Program, a 15-week online journey designed to transform your approach to connection, love, and intimacy. This straight-shooting, no-BS program is for anyone who is ready to cut through the noise and build authentic, loving relationships.

​What you'll find here is a path to an authentic, passionate, intimate relationship - whether you're single and searching, or already in a relationship and looking to deepen that connection.


I don't promise easy answers, because let's face it, they don't exist.

But I do promise real, actionable coaching that resonates with who you are.

You'll discover how to build relationships on a foundation of authenticity and mutual respect, not on tricks and pretense.

Through therapeutic coaching, interactive exercises, and a supportive community, you can develop the skills and psychology to create a love life that's as real as you are.

So, if you're ready to say goodbye to the bullshit and hello to something real, join us. Let's redefine what it means to date and love in a way that truly resonates with you.

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Why This Small-Group Coaching Program?

Let's get real. You're tired of the endless barrage of dating "tactics" and "secrets" that flood your social feeds. You know what I'm talking about - those quick-fix, superficial strategies that promise instant attraction and effortless romance.

But deep down, you feel it's all a bunch of bullshit.

​You're not looking to play games or put on some fake persona. You're done with the shallow end of the dating pool where hook-up culture reigns supreme.

What you crave is something genuine, a connection that's more than just a swipe right.

You're seeking an authentic, passionate, and intimate relationship. You want real, not rehearsed.

“Say no to the superficial. Embrace authenticity. Find love that lasts.”

The Uncomfortable Truth:
It's Time for a Deeper Approach

Here’s the hard truth: most dating and relationship advice out there is like slapping a Band-Aid on a broken leg. It might cover the surface, but it does nothing to heal the real issue.

You've watched the YouTube videos, tried the tactics, and copied and pasted the lines. But deep down, you know it's not working.

Why? Because the problem isn't your texting game or your dating app photos; it's something deeper, something more fundamental.

The surprising truth is this: as my friend Mark Manson has pointed out -- most people who struggle with dating don't actually have a dating problem; they have a personal problem that's manifesting in their dating and relationships.

These issues—low self-esteem, lack of confidence, unresolved trauma, fear of rejection or intimacy—these are not things you can fix with clever texting or a well-crafted dating profile.

They are deep-rooted and personal, and they require real work to overcome.

Why Therapeutic Coaching?

Therapeutic coaching is like taking a journey to the center of yourself. It’s about confronting the uncomfortable truths, the hidden fears, the unprocessed emotions. It's about understanding why you are the way you are and how your past experiences shape your current behavior. This isn’t just navel-gazing; it’s a critical process of self-discovery, healing, and growth.

The Power of Connection:
Why Therapeutic Group Coaching
Beats Going Solo

We’ve been fed this narrative that self-improvement, especially when it comes to dating and relationships, is a solo journey. You're supposed to figure it out on your own, in the darkness of late-night Googling or at best, the privacy of individual therapy.

But here's the truth: struggling in silence isn't just lonely; it's less effective.

Here’s why the kind of therapeutic group coaching in this program is a complete game-changer, especially for those entangled in the web of dating and relationship struggles:​

Shared Struggles, Multiplied Insights

In group therapeutic coaching, you're not just learning about yourself; you're learning from others' experiences too. It's like having a mirror held up to your own issues from multiple angles. You see your own patterns reflected in others, gaining breakthrough insights that would take much longer to uncover in individual therapy or never at all if going alone.

Real-Time Feedback, Brutal Honesty

Let's face it: we can all be blind to our own flaws. Group therapeutic coaching provides immediate, honest feedback from people who are going through the same shit. It's not always comfortable, but growth rarely is. In a group, you get to identify and practice new behaviors and get called out when you fall back into old, ineffective patterns.

Real-Time Feedback, Brutal Honesty

Let's face it: we can all be blind to our own flaws. Group therapeutic coaching provides immediate, honest feedback from people who are going through the same shit. It's not always comfortable, but growth rarely is. In a group, you get to identify and practice new behaviors and get called out when you fall back into old, ineffective patterns.

The Strength of Vulnerability

Vulnerability can be a superpower, especially in the context of relationships. In group therapeutic coaching, you're not just working on your issues; you're doing it in front of witnesses. This act of opening up, of showing your true self, is powerful practice for the kind of openness and vulnerability that deep, authentic relationships require.

A Sense of Belonging

One of the cruelest ironies of struggling with dating and relationships is the loneliness that often accompanies it. Group therapeutic coaching shatters that isolation. You're part of a community, a tribe of fellow travelers on the road to better, healthier relationships. That sense of belonging? It's healing in itself.

A Sense of Belonging

One of the cruelest ironies of struggling with dating and relationships is the loneliness that often accompanies it. Group therapeutic coaching shatters that isolation. You're part of a community, a tribe of fellow travelers on the road to better, healthier relationships. That sense of belonging? It's healing in itself.

Seeing Change in Others

Watching others grow and change is incredibly inspiring. It's one thing to be told change is possible; it's another to see it happening right in front of you. In group therapeutic coaching, you witness the journeys of others, which fuels your own belief that change is possible for you too.

Here’s the brutal truth:
If your dating life or relationship feels like a car crash, maybe it's time to stop trying to fix the car by yourself. Maybe what you need is a group of supportive people, a community, to help you understand not just the car, but the road it's traveling on. Therapeutic group coaching offers that. It's not the easy path. It's not the solitary path. But it might just be the path that leads you to where you want to be in love and life.

Hey there, I'm David Tian, but my journey to this point has been anything but straightforward. You might think having it all – money, women, and a whirlwind lifestyle – would be the dream. I lived that dream, and it nearly cost me everything.

I was the "Asian Hitch," Singapore's celebrated dating guru. I had learned the art of seduction from the best and taught the world's elite how to date. My program was the #1 rated dating course in the world.

Picture the high life – executive coaching, VIP parties, the whole shebang. I thought I was on top of the world. But the truth was, I was on the edge – literally. After a brutal, public betrayal by my then-girlfriend, I found myself on the 57th floor of a skyscraper, ready to end it all.

So, I embarked on a quest, diving headfirst into clinical psychology and psychotherapy. It was about doing the deep work, confronting my insecurities, and finding my true self. This journey taught me the art of unconditional self-love and how to give that love freely to others.

Today, I'm happily married with a beautiful family. But even more, I'm alive – truly alive. Not just existing, but living with purpose, meaning, and fulfillment. My past pursuit of significance through fame and achievements was just me trying to earn love and self-worth.

This realization led me to respect psychology and commit myself to the most effective therapeutic approaches. Now, as a coach and guide, I'm here to help you navigate the complex world of dating and relationships, not through tricks and tactics, but through genuine self-discovery and connection.

My journey’s taken me from the academic halls of the University of Michigan, where I got my Ph.D. and Masters, to being a tenure-track professor in Singapore, diving deep into philosophical psychology, moral psychology, and a bunch of other -ologies that would probably bore you if I listed them all. But it's not just about the degrees or fellowships from heady places like Harvard or Princeton. It's about how I've taken that knowledge and turned it into something real - something that can genuinely help people like you.

I'm a Certified IFS (Internal Family Systems) Therapy Practitioner, and I've trained in everything from Dialectical Behavior Therapy to Existential Group Therapy to Neuro-Linguistic Programming. My coaching covers the gamut – relationships, social skills, masculinity, self-development, and more. After 17 years and thousands of students from over 87 countries, I’ve seen and heard it all.

The core of my teaching? Authenticity. I help people shed their false selves and confront their inner fears. Whether you're struggling with dating, your relationship, or personal fulfillment, I tailor my approach to fit you. It's about real, lasting transformation.

The best part of this journey has been witnessing transformations, helping people find love, build healthy relationships, or just become more at peace with themselves. So, if you're ready to make real changes in your life, I’m here to guide you. Let’s start this journey together.

“Real growth happens together.
Are you ready to step into the circle?”

Introducing...

Transform Your Love Life:
Discover the Secret to Authentic Dating
and Successful Relationships

Transform Your Love Life:
Discover the Secret to Authentic Dating and Successful Relationships

Get ready to throw out all the bullshit advice you've been fed about dating and relationships.

The "Healthy Dating & Relationships" Small-Group Coaching Program isn't just another set of tips and tricks; it's a no-holds-barred, deep dive into the real stuff that makes or breaks your love life.

If you’re tired of the superficial dating scene and craving something genuine and lasting, this program is designed for you.

Over the course of 15 weeks with me, Dr. Tian, and a tight-knit group of like-minded individuals, you'll embark on a journey of self-discovery, emotional mastery, and genuine connection. We'll tackle everything from the unconscious baggage that's been holding you back, to establishing rock-solid boundaries, all while being your authentic, unfiltered self.

So, if you're ready to ditch the games, embrace your true self, and transform your approach to dating and relationships, let's get started. This is where real change happens.

What You Get With The
“Healthy Dating & Relationships”
Coaching Group Experience

+ Weekly Small-Group Coaching Live Online with David Tian

Every week, for a full 90 minutes, you're going to experience life-altering coaching in an intimate community. Yeah, none of the lost-in-the-crowd bullshit. 

No more head-scratching, just straight-up answers. Let's make this as painless as possible, folks. And remember, beyond the timings, this is about you creating a healthy relationship that stands the test of time.

+ 1:1 Personal Coaching in a Small Group

Imagine having a ringside seat to your own personal revolution. That's what you get with the "Healthy Dating & Relationships” Coaching Group. It's not just another group therapy session where you're lost in the crowd. Hell no. For 15 weeks, you're going to be in the thick of it with me, Dr. Tian, giving you direct, no-BS, 1:1 coaching. Each week, I’ll dive into your unique mess – because let's face it, we've all got one – and we'll start untangling it, piece by piece.

But here's the kicker: while you're getting this personalized ass-kicking (in the most supportive way possible), you'll also be learning from everyone else's triumphs and faceplants. It's like getting a multi-angle view on how to kick ass in your own relationships and life.

This isn’t just about skimming the surface; it’s about digging deep for those real, lasting transformations. So buckle up; it’s going to be one hell of a ride.

+ The Power of the Group

In the "Healthy Dating & Relationships" coaching group, you're not just learning from your own tangled love life; you're absorbing lessons from everyone's triumphs and faceplants. It's like a real-life simulation of your social world, a place where you can test-drive your newfound skills in a sandbox of diverse personalities, all wrestling with the same demons you are. Each session reminds you that you're not alone in this crazy quest for love. The group becomes your sounding board, your reality check, and your cheer squad, all rolled into one. This isn't just group coaching; it's a collective journey towards getting your romantic and love life out of the gutter and into the stratosphere.

+ Private Group Chat Online

Let's face it, real change doesn't just happen in weekly sessions; it's a 24/7, rough-and-tumble journey. That's why in the "Healthy Dating & Relationships" coaching program, you're getting an all-access pass to a private online group chat, where I, Dr. Tian, will be right there in the trenches with you. And it's not just me – your fellow group members will be there too, all of us duking it out together. This isn't your average chat room; it's a no-holds-barred, safe space where you can ask the hard questions, share the messy experiences, and get real-time support. You'll be giving and getting answers, cheering each other on, and maybe even sharing a few laughs. It's like having a support squad in your pocket, ready to back you up whenever you need it.

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Sorry, Enrollment for the Healthy Dating & Relationships Small-Group Coaching Program Is Currently Closed

To be notified when the Healthy Dating & Relationships Small-Group Coaching Program reopens for registration, click the button below and complete the brief assessment: ​

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